Saturday, July 11, 2009

Nothing makes you greatful for your life

Like watching other peoples lives self destruct.

My BFF is a prime example of this. Now, don't get me wrong, I love her with all of my heart. She's the mother of my god son and one of the best friends a girl could ask for. I wish we were closer, but over the past 2 years we've sort of grown apart because of who she was married too.

A was one of my husbands room mates when we first met. We did the total girl thing, i thought she didn't like me and she thought i didn't like her. Its just one of those things i guess. but after we got past this. she and i hit it off huge! She was the made of honor at my wedding. I was there when she had her son. it was amazing.

well... she was with someone i didn't like, approve of, or trust with my gold fish. He's a waste of skin from the word go.

B and I never liked him. I could name a million reasons why, examples, etc, but we'll leave it as he's a womanizer. He had another kid when they met. not that i have anything wrong with other people having kids. But this asshole fathered a kid with a married woman. There's no mistaking that this babygirl is his kid. it looks exactly like him. and he's mother loving proud of the fact that he got a woman to cheat on her husband and then got her pregnant. GROSS.

Then he finds my friend A. She's had a rough past with men and tends to look for love in all the wrong places. and she found it embodyed in T. T realized he could use, abuse, talk down to, and then make up to A and get what ever he wanted.

well, more than 1 year and 1 kid later, A finally got the good sense to move out on T. At first it started as a 'trial seperation'. but once they seperated she realized what a pig T was. he's asked her to 'be his wing man' so he can get laid.

so now your pretty much caught up to present day.

Well after we went camping for the 4th of july. i get a text message from A saying "boy, do i have a lot to tell you." well come to find out tim had been cheating on her (that i knew). but this one was her friend. and guess what.... SHE'S PREGNANT (yes its T's) and the last nail in the coffin... She's married too! She's due in Jan.

::dry heaves:: grosssssssssssssssssssssssss

Now last night i get a text from A , apparnetly T told her that he wants to have 10 kids from 10 differant women. WHO DOES THIS!?!? gross.

Moral of the story is: listen to me, because i'm right.


Mrs. S said...

I have this theory (joking, mostly) that people would be much better off if they just listened to me the first damn time instead of having to do everything the hard way. Sounds like you need to adopt that too.

I'm sorry to hear about your friends douche of a babydaddy. I sure hope he isn't successful with his 10/10 goal...